Humans are indeed a very complex organisms. They are very brittle and very hard to understand. You may have know him or her for many many years and yet you still wont anything about her. Maybe you will know the most is about a persons habits and name. Anyway it is funny a that now you are sitting, talking and laughing with your friends but a few minutes later your facial expression changes not because the friends your are talking to had made you so but because of something else. Something that the person is now suffering will not tell. This is what i call a person is now in am emo state. Imagine a person was happy and talking for the past few minutes suddenly turns gloomy and become very silent. He or she secluding him or herself form everyone else. Doesn't want to talk to anyone. Thinking into a very deep deep thought that nobody can figure out. It is kind of a scary situation to be in. When you ask whats wrong they will just push you away and say just leave me alone. I need some peace. Don't disturb me. Then we all will just sit there and start to monitor that person making sure they don't try anything stupid maybe? However a few hours or minutes later, they come how turn back to their old happy self. It is like as if they have never been through that emo stage. I don't know about you guys. However i find it quite funny that we humans are capable of doing so.
Someone was in an emo state but few minutes later we go back to normal. It is like we have some mental illness or so. A growth maybe in our brain but i doubt so as it is a stupid theory. Having to seen those happening for myself and also going through that process. I keep wondering what trigger us to act like so. Is it our nature to act so when we feel down or when something is very wrong? For some reason i know that maybe it is because of one simple phone call or sms. These can ultimately change an expression of a person form happy to sad, angry to happy or vise versa. To be being emo is a very tiring process. It is a waste of energy in doing so. But who cant prevent it form happening? Even we humans as complex as we can be, we have a hard time controlling our own emotions let figuring out or trying to comforting a person (why they are emo and when they are emo). I guess the best solution really is to just leave them alone and let there mind and soul rest and to cool down then only approach them. Seems like this world is filled with emo people. What i can is that we people are complex so we tend to have complex emotion as well.
Another things is i have met people who like to cry. I have never met a person who like to cry in my life. I keep wondering and asking myself why a person like to cry. After a long time thinking i have come out with rational reason why. To me it is to get other peoples attention. As in to get other peoples compensation towards your sorrow cause no one cares about you in this world. We tend to rule out parents as we think that they don't understand us at all. We have a different mind set as them. Next of course they want people to pity them to to therefore take notice of them. Some People see it as cute and they are attracted to what i call fake tears or better know as crocodile tears. Here is another question. How do we know the tears are fake or not? This is yet another complex emotion that we humans have. We can fake our emotions to gain others compensation. As in we are like using people. We can lie to our self in how we feel but not for long. The real feeling will always come back haunting us.
This is a very vast topic. The reason i wrote this is that i see many people in sorrow, sad. emo and lost people. They keep dwelling into their dark past never looking towards the future it seems. It is quite frightening and sad at the same time to see such people. I also feel like helping them but before i don i ask myself this question ( Yes it is my friend. But if i help that person he or she will say i am nosy cause they will think i want to know what is happening over actually wanting to help) and also i don't want to get into trouble. Being the middle person sucks. I have been the middle person for many situations and i think is time for me to stop being so. I am not saying that helping people is bad but what i am saying is just know your border line. When is the right time to help, In what situation i should help and am i capable of fully helping or will i make it worst.
Lastly to all the people: Smile more don't be in that sad state =D
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