How mush u trust someone. Will tell all your secrets to person whom u trust the most? and will he or she really will keep it a secret forever? Well i let u to decide on that. It is not easy to gain a person trust nor to earn their trust. However it is really easy to loose that trust. It just take a minute or two and the chain of trust is broken. Once the person found out that u are telling his or her secret. I can say that in order to repair the chain of trust is not easy. It is even harder to rebuild that chain of trust, that link. When a chain is broken. We try to fix it. Even though we weld the two broken chain together, there is still a certain part or point where there is a weak spot. That spot will eventually break again after that certain time. Means that although we have regain back that persons trust, he or she will not trust us as the first time they trusted or untrusted in. They will tend not to share anymore nor speak of certain things about there life that maybe could cause their happiness or life dearly. Secrets can be a person friend and also enemy. It depends how well we deal with it. I would say that there is no secret too big in this word. It is just who the person you told too and how well they keep our secret. They even said it out behind our backs and we will never notice it.
Those who have revealed others secrets will forever stain the hearts of that person who really trusted you since after knowing you for so long and well. That stain may not even be remove no matter how hard you try to wash it. No matter how much effort and time you put it the stain will remain may be the stain just faded a bit but the damage is already done. It is a irreversible process but why we tend to tell others although we know it is a secret. Does it hurt to tell a secret to a person in order to help him or her for doing somethg good? Why life is so unfair? You are helping a person bit a third party say that if you help him or her you end up being my enemy and loose my trust but if i dot help that person will suffer. What are you going to do if you were me? Being a good person is hard enough but being a bad person is also bad. Then what type of person shall we humans be then?